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Writer's pictureTabitha Taylor

Love poems about nature that could be read at weddings

Updated: Sep 8

This month's show focused on the theme of nature. I chose songs and poetry that were loosely based on all things in the natural world including trees, plants, landscapes and animals, especially birds! I got a bit obsessed with bird calls and how singers and instruments try to mimic birdsong. Anyway... here are some of the readings you heard.



The Rose Fairy by Cicely Mary Barker

Best and dearest flower that grows,

Perfect both to see and smell;

Words can never, never tell

Half the beauty of a Rose—

Buds that open to disclose

Fold on fold of purest white,

Lovely pink, or red that glows

Deep, sweet-scented.

What delight

To be Fairy of the Rose!


I just really like roses and these cute poems from when I was young! I can imagine this being used in a flower ritual in a wedding ceremony though. Or maybe at a Naming!


Wings of a Dove by Henry Van Dyke

I

At sunset, when the rosy light was dying

Far down the pathway of the west,

I saw a lonely dove in silence flying,

To be at rest.

Pilgrim of air, I cried, could I but borrow

Thy wandering wings, thy freedom blest,

I'd fly away from every careful sorrow,

And find my rest.


II

But when the filmy veil of dusk was falling,

Home flew the dove to seek his nest,

Deep in the forest where his mate was calling

To love and rest.


Peace, heart of mine! no longer sigh to wander;

Lose not thy life in barren quest.

There are no happy islands over yonder;

Come home and rest.


The idea that freedom is what people enjoy when actually home and feeling safe is just as valuable. Perhaps in reality they are the same thing, but I like the way this poem subverts those ideas.


Bird-Understander BY Craig Arnold

Of many reasons I love you here is one


the way you write me from the gate at the airport

so I can tell you everything will be alright


so you can tell me there is a bird

trapped in the terminal      all the people

ignoring it   because they do not know

what to do with it   except to leave it alone

until it scares itself to death


it makes you terribly terribly sad


You wish you could take the bird outside

and set it free or   (failing that)

call a bird-understander

to come help the bird


All you can do is notice the bird

and feel for the bird   and write

to tell me how language feels

impossibly useless


but you are wrong


You are a bird-understander

better than I could ever be

who make so many noises

and call them song


These are your own words

your way of noticing

and saying plainly

of not turning away

from hurt


you have offered them

to me   I am only

giving them back


if only I could show you

how very useless

they are not


People who have been together a long time tend to have this other way of romance that is ever more subtle. I always used to be unbelieving when people would say they love their person more and more each day, but perhaps it is the different things you find to love about them that they mean. This poem speaks to the little crazy things people love about each other and how they really all come down to the core of who the person is, in this case, an empathetic, thoughtful person.


The Frog Prince by Stevie Smith

I am a frog

I live under a spell

I live at the bottom

Of a green well


And here I must wait

Until a maiden places me

On her royal pillow

And kisses me

In her father’s palace


The story is familiar

Everybody knows it well

But do other enchanted people feel as nervous

As I do? The stories do not tell,


As if they will be happier

When the changes come

As already they are fairly happy

In a frog’s doom?


I have been a frog now

For a hundred years

And in all this time

I have not shed many tears,


I am happy, I like the life,

Can swim for many a mile

(When I have hopped to the river)

And am forever agile.


But always when I think these thoughts

As I sit in my well

Another thought comes to me and says:

It is part of the spell


To be happy

To work up contentment

To make much of being a frog

To fear disenchantment


Says, It will be heavenly

To be set free,

Cries Heavenly the girl who disenchants

And the royal times, heavenly,

And I think it will be.


Come then, royal girl and royal times,

Come quickly,

I can be happy until you come

But I cannot be heavenly,

Only disenchanted people

Can be heavenly.


This one made me laugh a bit, especially because it's older than you might have imagined - Stevie Smith was mostly writing in the 1960s. I like the idea that actually you can be happy and content with your life and when you do fall in love, your life just gets even better!


You can listen back to this month's show on Mixcloud to hear all the fab song selections. Next month's show will link love and death to ritual and tradition. Listen live on Voices Radio 7am-9am Tuesday 13th February 2024.

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